Dec 11 2008
Choice makes power
A new generation of California activists surfaced from the ashes of apathy after Proposition 8 banned same-sex marriage in the state.
Grass-roots groups not only embraced new technologies but old-school methods such as marches and sit-ins. Similar to prior movements that used phone trees and megaphones, protesters used text messaging, Facebook and Twitter to spread the word about rallies that drew tens of thousands of people in scores of cities and towns across the nation.
So, it would seem marriage equality supporters would join forces in denting the national economy when plans for a “Day Without a Homo” protest on Dec. 10, the International Human Rights Day, came to light. Participants also were asked to “call in gay” to work, refrain from spending money or at least to patronize gay-friendly businesses for the day.
Some gay right activists praised the event. Many were firm in maintaining their commitment whether by fully or partially embracing the economic boycott.
But many questioned its value.
Some supporters believed a work stoppage or spending boycott was impractical given the poor economy. Many, aware of the 7 percent unemployment rate, feared becoming a statistic. Others, conscious of the increase cost in basic living expenses were unwilling to miss a day of work.
A few of the people who decided to skip on boycotting gay-owned and gay-friendly businesses or closing down a business to LGBT-supportive clients, said it seemed to defeat the purpose of generating cohesion and maintaining the backing of people who may not be directly impacted but whose support is needed in achieving equality.
Certain individuals also chose to forfeit a “Day Without a Homo” to maintain their anonymity at work.
The point of the boycott was to show the economic clout of same-sex marriage supporters and choosing not to participate made that point less relevant.
However, our own conscience will dictate how we choose our battles. The road toward equality takes participation and sacrifice within an individual’s means. It doesn’t matter how we choose to get there, the point is that we get there and attacking from different fronts is the best way to enter the fortress of power which is lacking in our community.